~ Juliana aka Wenzi aka liwen aka Lanelle
~ Single
~ 12 october
~ 20 going to be 21!!
~ Singapore
~ Currently studying in NYP, taking Nursing Course
~ Libran. (An elegant n classy horoscope!)
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~ To Slim Down
~ Finish My Diploma ASAP n Be A Nurse [Granted]
~ Papillio or Birkenstock Cheery or flowery sandal[Granted]
~ Dress which i can match wif my jeans[Granted]
~ Ipod Ear piece[Granted]
~ Colour Contact lenses
~ Piano
~ Car
~ Japanese Digital Curl
~ Vera Wang Princess Perfume
~ (to be continue.....)
:. my loVeS .: x)
~ My Family
~ My Friends Who Know Me The Most: Ying, Ernest, Shan, Fan, Valerie n Lionel
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Monday, January 30, 2006 :]
Why gers dun like their bf to chat wif gers on the net, or shld i say chat wif stranger or gers they haf nv seen b4?? i am not trying to say tt my bf is someone like this.. but i haf met a number of guys who are actually bastard!!
First, namely kston.. this guy is ann's fren.. he know ann thru her blog.. he talk to ann on fone, sms n everything.. ask ann to be his gf, care n concern abt ann.. and obviously he is wooing her.. so for concern, ann haf to know whether is he attach or not so tt no misunderstanding will arise.. and as expected, his answer was no.. he is said to be single n eligible.. and so Ann, was getting on good term wif him.. although ann is not in the mood to haf bf, but it's rare of her to be msging a guy often..
One day.. a ger appear in ann's blog n say weird things like, kston n stuffs.. and for goddness sake, she appear as kston's gf!!! And of cuz, ann was shock to see tt bcuz she tot kston was single.. and obviously, kston haf cheated his gf love for him and true enough flirting with a ger he barely know from the net...
Nxt story... this time round, it happen on me.. This guy is my fren.. know him way back for abt 1 year.. know him through the net too.. at tt time, i haf not met my current bf.. anyway, din really talk to him in the first few months.. and only after tt the news tt i haf gt a bf spread, den he start to chat wif me.. he initiate the chat.. he was in my msn list for so long tt i haf nv click on his name to chat wif him.. I only got to know him better since around 1 month back.. As i said, he initiate the chat by asking " how am i", how is the r/s of me n my bf".. din talk much n i din reveal much abt my r/s wif him bcuz i dun see a nid for him to know..
Only when i had a big disagreement wif my bf, he come to me n offer me a shoulder to cry on.. he talk to me, console me... At tt time, I realise he is a good fren to be wif.. a good fren tt i can confine in.. and all these while.. it's FRIEND.. it nv cross the boundary of friend.. bcuz i haf realise tt i mus cherish my bf..
Anyway, i gt to know tt he actually has a gf.. i gt to know abt it recently.. he lie to me tt he is single since August 2005.. well, i m not sad, i am not unhappy but i feel sorry for his gf.. i am not sad bcuz i treat him as a fren.. i am not unhappy bcuz i haf nv fall for him.. but i am sorry.. sorry bcuz he haf been keeping alot of secret from his gf.. secret of having fling, secret of having scandals wif his fren outside.. i know all this bcuz he haf told me abt it.. and when i read his gf friendster, i can see tt she really love him alot.. but i wonders why guys cannot stay to one ger n be faithful to them instead they nid to flirt around.. and hurt gers feeling.. how will the gers they flirt wif know abt the truth? how will the gf know abt the truth tt he flirt? Gers are getting themself hurt when they haf bf tt dun cherish them n always fooling around...
I haf gt so many example of this.. i haf gt lots more from my Gfs in sch.. i haf gt lots more to share.. but i think these 2 example is enuff for u guys to understand why gers dun like their bf to chat wif stranger or gers in the net.. these 2 examples are enuff to show tt alot of guys r fooling around due to the freedom their gf gif..
In my example, Kston's gf are being hurt by him bcuz of the love she has for him is not being able to fulfil it purpose... Ann are hurt bcuz of the lies Kston tell her.. bcuz i strongly believe tt no one will like to be lied to.. Shawn's gf will oso be hurt when she gt to know tt his bf is having so many dark secret behind her back.. i am hurt bcuz a fren tt i trust actually betray the trust... Everyone knows tt trust r easily broken and hard to build.. if u haf someone who really trust u.. i think it's best for u to really preserve tt trust rather then fooling wif it.. bcuz things will nv be the same again if it's broken.. i haf been thru tt situation.. the feeling is unbearable.. both party wont feel good.. one party will be worrying n not trusting.. the other party will be sad n angry for not being able to be trusted.. and as times goes by, misunderstanding will be overlapping each other, stacking n piling up.. at tt point, things will be very tough to clear and the worst senario will occur..
Dear.. i am feeling upset right now due to the betraying of a fren.. feeling upset for gers when this kind of things happen to them.. hope u understand this entry and no misunderstanding will rise.. if there is, i hope u can confine in me.. let communication be alive!
And to the guys and gers who haf read my blog... Pls rmb.. dun do thing tt hurt ur bf or gf.. chatting online with stranger is fun, and u may think tt nothing will go wrong if u r juz purely chatting only.. but u will nv know, one day, u might juz haf cross the wrong path and things will start to get messy.. juz obey the rule in R/S and juz do ur part of who u should be.. u can haf fun rather den chatting wif stranger.. and by saying u r only having fun for chatting wif stranger is not the excuse of it... Anyway, no offence to anyone.. especially to Ann and my dear...
~ Juliana aka Wenzi aka liwen aka Lanelle
~ To Slim Down
~ My Family
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